26-Jun-06

Bowling Alone

I recently found an interesting new book called Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American Community from a professor at Harvard (just up the road... sounds a little weird...) about how North American communities are becoming increasingly disengaged:

"In a groundbreaking book based on vast new data, Putnam shows how we have become increasingly disconnected from family, friends, neighbors, and our democratic structures-- and how we may reconnect. Putnam warns that our stock of social capital - the very fabric of our connections with each other, has plummeted, impoverishing our lives and communities. Putnam draws on evidence including nearly 500,000 interviews over the last quarter century to show that we sign fewer petitions, belong to fewer organizations that meet, know our neighbors less, meet with friends less frequently, and even socialize with our families less often. We're even bowling alone. More Americans are bowling than ever before, but they are not bowling in leagues."

And there's more:

"The change is most obvious in the sphere of politics - voting, political knowledge, political trust, and grassroots political activism are all down. Americans sign 30% fewer petitions and are 40% less likely to join a consumer boycott, as compared to just a decade or two ago. But the declines are equally visible in non-political community life: membership and activity in all sorts of local clubs and civic and religious organizations have been falling at an accelerating pace. In the mid-1970s the average American attended some club meeting every month, but by 1998 that rate of attendance had been cut by nearly 60%.

Equally striking is the fraying of our informal ties with friends and neighbors and relatives. In 1975 the average American entertained friends at home 15 times per year; the equivalent figure is now barely half that. Virtually all leisure activities that involve doing something with someone else, from playing volleyball to playing chamber music, are declining.

Although we are more tolerant of one another than were previous generations, we trust one another less. Survey data provide one measure of the growth of dishonesty and distrust, but there are other indicators. For example, employment opportunities for police, lawyers, and security personnel were stagnant for most of this century - indeed, America had fewer lawyers per capita in 1970 than in 1900! But in the last quarter century these occupations have boomed, as we have increasingly turned to the courts and the cops to make others keep their word.

You might want to take a look at the list of survey questions they used to ascertain "community engagement" here.  While all the figures are for the United States, I would bet a significant amount of money that the trends in Canada are essentially the same.

I find the last point of the quote above particularly fascinating - "although we are more tolerant of one another, we trust one another less".  This quote in particular brought to mind (in an incredibly tangential way) a terrific article by Andrew Coyne that I read a couple of weeks ago regarding the possible connection between Canada's policy of multiculturalism and the recent terror-related arrests in Toronto (I couldn't agree more with his main point below):

"The problem is not that immigrants are not absorbing Canadian values. The problem is that there we have provided them with so few Canadian values to absorb. We are the country of the notwithstanding clause, the country that exalts the virtues of pragmatism and compromise before all. We do not take a stand, we split the difference."

Here's the connection between these two items as I see it:  how can we build a cohesive society if we don't have any unambiguous and commonly-held values to strive towards?  And, if we refuse to engage in our communities to get to know who our neighbours are by working/playing side-by-side with them, how can we possibly develop these shared values and goals which we need to function as a country?  

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Saying Goodbye

I stink at goodbyes.  Like a lot of people I think, I always find it wonderful (cue swelled head and irrational ego boost)but exceeding awkward to receive praise.  What are you supposed to say beyond "Thank you?"  And how are you supposed to tell the people you are saying goodbye to how much they mean to you without descending into repetitive and trite comments?  At any rate, since I am convinced (and have historical confirmation) that I am way more eloquent in writing than I am verbally, let me just say how amazing it has been to be part of Philpott and oXyGEN over the past few years.  Whatever I put into it, I got way more out of it in terms of gaining a better understanding of who God is and what being part of a real genuine and loving community really feels like.   I think it's rare to find such a large group of people who have all bought into the idea that service is a joyful way of life instead of a pain in the rear end.  It has been (and will continue to be, albeit from a remote location for a couple of years) a joy and a privelege to be with you on the journey!   

The other thing I've really realized over the past week of goodbyes is that it's really amazing how something that you do or something you say can really affect people in ways you would never dream.  I've been really touched by what several people have said to me... both the standard "goodbye, we'll miss you" and really specific anecdotes about how something I did was important to others in their spiritual walks or just as friends.  I know I could recount a host of stories on that front myself regarding situations where others really ministered to me.  This is no means a complaint (and if it were, I would be condemning myself equally), but I have to wonder why we so often wait until a goodbye to share with others how they have encouraged us.  

OK, enough of this before it starts to descend into a weepy, Oscar acceptance speech-style ramble... Cry 

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Why I Think I Am Sufficiently Interesting to Start a Blog

Reasons I am starting a blog:

1) I think I am endlessly fascinating.  Come on, you know that deep down inside we all think that :)  There has to be a reason there are now millions of blogs floating around the internet - right?  Right???

2) I really stink at replying to personal e-mails, so when people complain they haven't heard from me for a while, now I can say "well, you should have read my blog!"  Essentially, I view blogging is a built-in excuse for laziness in this respect. 

3) I got my feet wet being the primary blogger on the oXyGEN site, the college and careers group website I ran for my church in Hamilton, for the past couple of years and found that I really enjoyed spouting off my opinions and/or highlighting interesting things I read which I think are important to think about.  Since I thought it would be weird to keep posting there while I am not actually in the same country, it was time to start a new blog.  Plus, I was always conscious on a church blog to bite my tongue about politics and such things which didn't have some sort of "edifying" aspect for the group as a whole.  I'm looking forward to expanding my commentary topics on this blog - get ready for some politics, some baseball, some curling, some cool (?) science, and some relatively boring "look at what I did!" stuff.

4) As most of you know, I will be living south of the border for the next couple of years as I do my post-doc at MIT.  So, not only is this a good way to keep in touch with everybody but also share with you some of the interesting features about living in a "foreign" country (as foreign as Cambridge, MA is to Canada, which admittedly is not really too much).

I should explain the name I chose for this blog too.  I have been told that I frequently use what could be termed "odd" phrases over the course of conversation.  "This is true" is one, "Oh joy" is another, and "There is that" (emphasis on the italicized is) is yet another.  I thought "There is that" was the perfect name given the "multi-disciplinary" (academic code word for "rambling and refusing to actually choose a particular topic") nature of this blog.  Plus, unlike one of the aforementioned phrases, I have never gotten yelled at for using "There is that" in an "insensitive" context (don't ask, long story :)

Anyway, hope you enjoy it!

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